20
Nov
09

Do I have to Leave?

It’s been a great couple of days. Wednesday was pretty relaxed. Trying to fit as much as possible into one day for three weeks gets tiring, so I needed a break. James and I went out to eat with Nate, a guy we met at the hostel, to Mo’s, who has the best burgers we’ve ever had: a big chunk of tender, juicy meat, a hardy bun, slabbered in BBQ sauce, and with plenty of bacon; it was delicious.

James and Nate

James and Nate

We walked out of the restaurant into what we first thought was a riot in the streets. There was a block full of people wearing green, white, and red, waving flags, honking horns, and screaming. A soccer team had just won a game apparently, and these people were very excited. We three just stood on the corner watching in bewilderment, taking in the energy. The cops eventually showed up and broke up the party, and after they all drove away honking horns and waving flags out the windows Nate left us to go to Oakland. James took me down to the Warf and showed me around a little bit. We watched some break dancers, talked to some people he had randomly met down there, and just hung out.


Later that night while we were walking up to the hostel James and this guy staying at the Green Tortoise started talking about how the best way to travel is with no plan, and to just follow your heart wherever it takes you. I realized how true that was. I tried to fit 7 cities into 21 days, when in reality many of these cities needed more than 21 days to even get to know. I had had the urge to stay in SF another night and to skip Denver all day that day, and I mentioned it to James at one point. After our conversation he looked at me with a face that was encouraging me to stay another night, I knew what I had to do. I went upstairs and changed my plans again: one more day in San Francisco, the coolest place I’ve ever been, skip Denver, and come home a day early.

Canceling SLC was an easy decision, I knew no one there and it was supposed to be fairly boring. Denver, on the other hand, was supposed to be amazing. I was going to meet up with Jessica again, she wanted to show me around, and I was supposed to stay with Nancy Greeley, an MV alumni. I was excited for both things. However, if Denver is supposed to be so awesome, I think it would deserve more than two small days, and SF was so great that the five days I did have there did still not do it justice.

I’m going to be traveling again this summer, and possibly take a year off from school to continue on going. I’ll be able to do it right this time. I’ll stay in each city for as much time as I think I need to, not a measly two days. I’m going to have some destinations in mind, but I don’t want to know exactly where I’m going next until it’s time to go.

If I could go back in time and do it differently, though, I don’t think I’d change a thing. The best way to learn how to do something right is to do it wrong. I had an amazing experience that I could never forget, and my worst experience was just leaving. I learned so much, more than school could ever teach me; about travel, life, living, lemons, and a few random facts as well. My path became intertwined with James’ (and many others) and I would be shocked if we did not see each other again.




6 Responses to “Do I have to Leave?”


  1. 1    Robin November 20, 2009 at 8:03 pm

    You’re a amazing.

  2. 2    Robin November 20, 2009 at 8:05 pm

    ….did you put the “a” in amazing? I think that was me. enjoy the train ride home…it’s going to be a long one. I’ll be at the station when you get here.

  3. 3    Roger November 20, 2009 at 11:17 pm

    Wrong is a relative term, isn’t it? There, I don’t think, hasn’t been much wrong about this experience. You have to do, learn from the choices you made, and then go do again. Mr. Anderson will be glad to hear that you’ve gained such a love for traveling. I hope that you’ll have many, many opportunities to go and do.

    Thanks for taking us along on this journey. Can’t wait to hear more of the stories, both from this one and from future journeys. Have a safe journey across the continent towards home. Who knows, maybe there are a few small adventures yet to experience.

    Charles Kuralt used to end his “On the Road” TV show with this line, and it’s always been a favorite of mine:

    “I see up ahead the road is curving. I wonder what’s around the bend?”

  4. 4    Mikey Espinosa November 21, 2009 at 2:09 pm

    Awesome man. Can’t wait to see ya.

  5. 5    Aimee November 22, 2009 at 10:39 pm

    You’ve discovered how to do it, Elliot! I’m so happy for you … this is the stuff that makes life great. Can’t wait to hear your tales back home. Safe journey. xoAimee

  6. 6    Grace November 24, 2009 at 8:15 pm

    I really liked your writing. It was a good story to tell.

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